Gunpowder Chronicles

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Navigating the Dark Side of Online Dating: Tales of Manipulation and Abuse
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Navigating the Dark Side of Online Dating: Tales of Manipulation and Abuse

In this series of articles, I aim to shed light on the dangers of dating apps and the tactics used by individuals with narcissistic personality disorders.

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Vudi Xhymshiti
May 16, 2023
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Author’s NOTE: I am currently in the process of writing a series of articles titled "Tales of Dating Apps". This project stems from my recent experience of being in virtual contact with an individual with a grandiose narcissistic personality disorder, despite being aware of their true intentions. I allowed this individual to manipulate me for nearly two years, and they eventually spent three days with me in London upon my return from a long conflict-reporting assignment in Ukraine, Moldova, and the Balkan Peninsula. During this time, I observed their behaviour and noted their tendency to switch between their true personality and a false persona they intentionally use to control and manipulate their victims' emotions.

Through these articles, I aim to shed light on the dangers of dating apps and the tactics used by individuals with such personality disorders. I hope that my experiences can serve as a warning to others and help them recognize red flags in their own relationships.

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